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Para sa Amung Kaminyoon by: CLA


Ang paghigugma nimo sa usa ka tao nagasugod sas mga materyal na hinungdan sa imong pagkagusto kaniya hangtod sas makadesisyon ka na imohon ang kanang tawhana hangtod sa kahangtoran tybgid sa mga nagpatong-patong na mga hinungdan. Ang gugma diay, usa ka desisyon, dili emosyon, kay kung emosyon pa na, dali ra na mabag-o ug dali ra mapalong. Ang imong pagkamadali-dalion, ang paspas na pagbag-o sas imong gusto sa kinabuhi, dad-on ka niana sa pag-ibog-ibog sas mga bisan unsa ug bisan kinsa, pero ang imong hugot na pagkupot sa imong mga hinungdan kung nganong nahigugma ka sa ug sa imong desisyon kung nganong magpabilin ka, dad-on ka niana sa usa ra jud ka tao hangtod sa kahangtoran.

Ang pakigbisog nagasugod sas panaghiusa ug ang pagkaabri ug ang pagkaanda, sa imuhang huna-huna na makadangat ug mas nindot pa na panaghi-usa. Ang imong pagsugat sas mga problema na muabot sa imong kinabuhi ug ang imong determinasyon na masulbad ang pinakahinungdan jud sa problema, kining duha mao ni ang magdala sas imo sas usas ka malampuson na pakigbisog.

Kung ang kaning duha – ang paghigugma ug ang pakigbisog – imoha ning parison, Makita kanato ang parehong pag-asdang u gang pagkamatay sa gugma sa pang-adlaw-adlaw na pakigbiso. Dili man predestined ang kalibutan; buot ipasabot, ikaw ang magpadagan sa imong kinabuhi labi na sas mga managtiayon, na kamo ang magpadagan sa inuing panaghigugmaay. Ang challenge ninyo, karl ug joy, kinahanglan ninyo mas pahinugon ang mga kundisyon – makigbisog mo kada-adlaw para mas muinit pa ang inyong panag-higugmaay ug dili kini mamatay.

Naay managtiayon na nahigugma sas usag usa tungod sa bisyo. Nagminyo sila, naa ra gihapon ang bissyyo. Hangtod naa na silay anak nga duha, naa ra gihapon. Okay pa ang bisyo para sa ila kadtong bag-o pa sila gasugod kay lahi pa man ang kahimtang niadtong panahuna. Ang kanang bisyo pun-an ug garbo, katunga na sa imung gugma nimo para sa imong asawa ug imong anak. Pero tungod kay naa pa man gihapon ang ilahang gugma sa usag usa, gilingkuran nila ilang problema, naglalis, nag-istoryaanay hangotd naabot sap unto na nag-abot gyud tawn sila kay nagpahi-ubos man silang duha ug gitalikdan ang ilahang mga bisyo ug mas nahigugma pa hinuon sila sa usag usa.

Kung nahigugma ka sa imong asawa, andam ka makigbisog kuyog siya para ma maghinigugmaay pa mu.

Sama kang Andres Bonifacio u gang mga ubang mag-uuma ug mamumuo niadtong 1896, tungod sa ilang gugma para sa isig us aka Pilipino na gasakit ilawm sas Espanol ug ang ilang kaandam na makigbisog para sa pagpapahawa sa Espanol, nahimo silang mausab tinuuray ang kaugmaon sa kanabag-an sa mga Pilipino pinaagi sa pag-asdang nila sa rebolusyon.

Mao ni akong masulti sa inyo karon. Kamo na lay fill up sa uban examples. Kay wala man koy lain experience pa sa pakigbisog kundi ang pakigbisog para mabag-o ang nasud.

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