Home inevitably
to the common person is an answer from a question of where and what. To ask
what is to inquire to the many things to what we can say of a home both in
abstract and in a particular manner. In abstract we generalize through all-encompassing
words what really makes a home which is true to all homes. On the other side,
not all homes in particular are the same in other homes with regards to the
materialization of the universals. Different names and appearances of people
are involved but still in general we call them family, parents, siblings and
etc. A home can be really well be answered by the “what” question.
To the common
person, what and where are different ways of asking questions, but to some most
especially those who had a little bit of Aristotle is that, the where is part
of the what – accidence of place. A home materializes itself with people around
in a space that it occupies along with it. A structure or even the reminiscence
of the living room arrangement or the house by the sea or by the trees or
amidst the noisy slums can be the best place of what can be a home. Space and
the people along with it make the home a home, wherein we can best peer into our
memories when we look into old pictures taken by the first generation mass
produced Kodak camera.
A lot of
families have been a lot to places or even enjoyed their stay in their own
abodes. Enjoying the company of the many people around or inevitably in pain
together, all what family and a home feels like to be. So, they ask “What is
home?”. I can tell them numerous experiences in detailed accounts with the so
many fortunate and unfortunate events that had happened. I can tell them the
people involved. How they look like. However, there is one thing that I am
deeply affected and this is the less looked question that comes together with “what”
and that is “when”.
For me “when”
bears more meaning and pondering more than what and where. What and where
together with the who can easily be told, but the “when” is the hardest. Time,
all I can say there was once a time. A home trapped in “that” time. All there
is to say, there was once was a home and I live each day to live through a
wreckage of what stood before an edifice. Everyday is living through restoring
or resentment of what was once was. Time stood still when Home was, Time
changed when Home was not. What is home? When is home? Home is when it was once
was. Hoping it will be what it was. We can go through the day in space, but we
have, I have a baggage in time.
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